this is a very complicated cocktail of biology, environment, and psychology. and it's not simply a behavioral choice. >> okay. let me play devil's advocate. no one chooses to be overweight? >> absolutely not, or anorexic. >> many people will say, you do, it's a lifestyle choice, food choices that you make. emmy, you're very much in the public spotlight, what are your thoughts on this? >> i definitely think that -- absolutely i agree with you, n. ndewct oyeit3 >wee intoalabt 3 % pchrasn ame and i know that it would be better for my kids. if i got it more under control. so i do feel a sense of guilt at times about that. >> okay. >> wow. i've never heard him say that before, don, ever. >> can we take that down? can we take that down, i'll get to it in a second. but isn't he saying the same thing as this guy is saying? that she's not a role model for young girls -- >> different. >> he's saying, i'm not a role model for my kids. >> it's not about role model, it's about getting to be a parent and stay around for a long time, it's about health. something i want to sa